The Bill Hartman Podcast for The 16% - Season 11 - Number 10 Podcast
Right. That's what childhood is for. That's what your youth is for—to do stuff. You have very low risk situations when you're young. It's like, what do you have to lose? Absolutely nothing. You don't own anything. You don't have any money. And so you just do stuff. Then you sort of find out, you know what? I'm really, really good at this. And I start moving in this direction. Then maybe it's a dead end. Who knows? But we all hit any number of dead ends through this process. What people end up doing is they do what they think they should do, or they follow a path that they've been told to follow. Sometimes it works out great. I'll give you an example. One of the kids I used to work with when I started working in high school and through college. He's now an orthopedic surgeon. Oh well. His dad was an orthopedic surgeon. And it turns out that he's a really good orthopedic surgeon. But what if he wasn't? What if he forced himself into that situation and found out, oh my gosh, this is just a horrible, miserable existence? Because it could have been. It just turned out that he's a lot like his dad. His dad was a really good orthopedic surgeon, and it turns out that he's a really good orthopedic surgeon. Everybody says, oh, he just followed the same path as his dad. No, he followed his strengths. And he could have been really good at something else based on those strengths. It just happens that there was a predisposition based on his familiarity with things. So he kind of followed the same general direction, but he's not his dad. He's not the same surgeon that his dad is, and potentially could be better. The point is, me expressing how I got here—you can't do it. It's not even feasible for you to even do it. But if that's the path you think you should take because it follows your strengths, you will find your way if the desire is sufficient. Do you need a credential? Okay, pursue that credential. Do you need a skill? Yes, pursue that skill. I don't know what your skill set is because it's different from mine. So me saying, well, I did this and I did this and you go, well, I'm going to do that too—wait, but that's not your path. The thing people need to recognize is they have to discover these things for themselves because then there's an emotional attachment and it becomes meaningful. If I tell you, here's what I did, everybody goes, wow, let's do that. And it's like, no, you can't do that. You can't do that. You have to find your own path. I will happily tell you my story for entertainment purposes, but I don't think it's terribly meaningful.
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