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I have one more deeper question on the Bill Hartman show this morning. So on that note and kind of on the tail end of all of those, what do you think that personally, like inside of you—not outside of your environment or not necessary to learning—but you personally on the inside made you successful or made you who you are now? Like, I know that like, I think like you, like you put out some of the answers, but what do you think that's like the three like most successful traits in you? Well, number one: I don't know that I'm successful, okay? I'm happy, which is more important. Having a curiosity about what you do is one of the most powerful things because it drives you to continue to progress, right? I still have questions. I still look for answers, right? And so I think that that's probably number one. Like the minute you stop being curious, you don't ask questions anymore. And then you make an assumption that you know enough. And then there's no growth. And one of my greatest fears is that I'm actually an old man sitting in a nursing home sitting in a wheelchair and all this is being imagined, right? Because that's where I don't want to be. I always want to be invested and excited about what I do. And so I think the curiosity is the number one thing because it does continue to push you like when you're tired, but you still have to answer that one question because it's just burning up inside of you to have an answer. And so, I don't know if I would have a top three to be honest with you because I just think that the curiosity drives the excitement. The excitement drives the motivation. And then the discovery is the reward. So, you know, it's just people like to talk about, like they know something about the brain and they say, oh, it's your dopamine reward system. It's like, okay, so let's just say that that is what's going on. It's like, every time you discover something new or something of value or something that kind of makes sense, and you do get that excitement, you know, like, you know, getting the perfect red velvet cake with the extra buttercream icing on it, you know, what I'm talking about, you know, and then you put your favorite caramel flavored ice cream on top of it. Does everybody do that? Or is it just me? So it's that moment where it's just like, this is perfect and you feel that and then you get driven again. But without the curiosity, I don't think there's a cascade like that. And so if you're not curious about this and then you're not going to do well because the struggle is therefore a reason to keep the challenge in front of you, which is really, really important. But if you're not curious and then you struggle, now you hate yourself and you hate every moment and you can't live like that.
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